Do You Have a Problem with the Word Failure?
People don't like to talk about failure. They prefer other terms. Challenges. Stumbling blocks. Hiccups. Preludes to success. Opportunities for growth. They embrace what my friend Elizabeth calls the perky reframe . (I got fired, but hey, I have a lot more time to devote to my popsicle stick collection.) Most of all, they prefer you don't openly call something a failure. Sound familiar, anyone? There are good reasons people shy away from labeling things, especially programs, projects or collaborative endeavors, failures. It can be embarrassing to admit. It may jeopardize your public image or compromise your legitimacy. For those of us who rely on grants, fellowships and donations, it might risk funding. If something with which we are involved fails, it is possible we ourselves will come off looking like failures. Me, I don't trust people who can't talk openly about failure. It could be my experience with Irish history. The Irish ability t